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Jan 6, 2009

Forget People Who Don't Want to Be Friends with You

Friendship can be a tenuous thing. One day, you're like family, and the next, the person won't even acknowledge you. Well, you don't deserve to be treated like that. Here's what to do.

Analyze what happened to lead to this. What did you do? If the answer is "I have no clue!" then that's okay too. However, if it is something you can sincerely apologize for, then do it. If it's not (because you didn't do anything), go to next step .
Get rid of them if they have no legitimate reason to ignore you. Let go of those good memories and send them into space. "Thinking about the good times you had" and about "What went wrong?" won't help you feel any better. It'll just make you hurt more, and you don't want that.
Know that there are good people out there. If you're currently in high school, then you don't have to worry about anything. If you don't have friends there, you will make them later on in life. For instance, college -- this is where people usually meet their true friends anyway.
Remember that everything happens for a reason. This person/these people/this team that you are no longer friends with aren't good for you, and there's a reason why you aren't their friend anymore. Good riddance!

* Be happy, because life's too short.