Jul 8, 2009
Be different. People want someone who isn't the same as everyone else. It gets annoying when you say the same thing as the girl right next to you. Be original or learn to become more creative. Don't be to different like a loner. People will sort of... avoid you. Become optimistic. Sometimes the day isn't perfect and there seems like there is no possible way to stay positive, think of the things we always forget. Think: "there is always tomorrow" or "it's not the end of the world" Of course there are going to be some downs in your life but you can't just give up that easily. Also your social status will definitely go down if you are always sad.
Become more outgoing. Do something! go explore the world outside your house! Life isn't eat sleep work and repeat. Try going to the park or shop with a friend. Maybe even sacrifice part of summer for a road trip(if you can drive). The point is to let people know what you are interested in. You could like hip hop music, nature, reading, or running. Anything that suites you. Don't be afraid to express yourself. That's the key to being open. You have to be able to tell people what you think and what interests you. You and everybody should be able to identify the real you. You can;t hide what you feel for ever. Overcome your fears. The main fear is that of rejection. No not necessarily friendship but a more closer relationship. That can also make you feel more enclosed. A relationship is not the end of the world. In fact that's not going to be your last love.
Posted by Jane at Wednesday, July 08, 2009 |