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Pregnant and Depressed

Hormones, body changes and new emotions make you vulnerable to emotional ups and downs during and after pregnancy. Learn to spot the signs of depression so you can take care of you and your baby.

What is depression?

Depression can be described as feeling sad, blue, unhappy, miserable, or down in the dumps. Most of us feel this way at one time or another for short periods. But true clinical depression is a mood disorder in which feelings of sadness, loss, anger, or frustration interfere with everyday life for an extended time. Depression can be mild, moderate, or severe. The degree of depression, which your doctor can determine, influences how you are treated.

How common is depression during and after pregnancy?

Depression that occurs during pregnancy or within a year after delivery is called perinatal depression. The exact number of women with depression during this time is unknown. But researchers believe that depression is one of the most common complications during and after pregnancy. Often, the depression is not recognized or treated, because some normal pregnancy changes cause similar symptoms and are happening at the same time. Tiredness, problems sleeping, stronger emotional reactions, and changes in body weight may occur during pregnancy and after pregnancy. But these symptoms may also be signs of depression.

What causes depression?

There may be a number of reasons why a woman gets depressed. Hormone changes or a stressful life event, such as a death in the family, can cause chemical changes in the brain that lead to depression. Depression is also an illness that runs in some families. Other times, it's not clear what causes depression.

During Pregnancy

During pregnancy, these factors may increase a woman's chance of depression:

   * History of depression or substance abuse
   * Family history of mental illness
   * Little support from family and friends
   * Anxiety about the fetus
   * Problems with previous pregnancy or birth
   * Marital or financial problems
   * Young age (of mother)

After Pregnancy

Depression after pregnancy is called postpartum depression or peripartum depression. After pregnancy, hormonal changes in a woman's body may trigger symptoms of depression. During pregnancy, the amount of two female hormones, estrogen and progesterone, in a woman's body increases greatly. In the first 24 hours after childbirth, the amount of these hormones rapidly drops back down to their normal non-pregnant levels. Researchers think the fast change in hormone levels may lead to depression, just as smaller changes in hormones can affect a woman's moods before she gets her menstrual period.
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Stress

   We went for our usual walk today. The wind is blowing so hard and so cloudy , look like storm is coming or something. It's good to go for a walk to relieve some stress . I am stress emotionally and mentally. Sometimes I felt like giving up hope. But I have to kick and move on whatever life brings in everyday life. I know that life is not easy for some people (that include me). But I have to have faith and keep on believing that things will get better.



   You probably asking your self(what is she talking about)? Every individual in this earth has their own problem in life. This is the only way I can let my emotion out by writing what's inside me. I feel like running and just scream until I dont have a voice no more. Feels like blaming someone or everybody, but I can't do that . I cannot blame anyone for something I did or vise versa. I tell my self ...just let it out, cry, cry so hard. Maybe tomorrow will bring us a new day and start of new life. That's how I feel!
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Strong quake shakes Southern California

What is going on in LA? It's disaster! First they got hit by a fire, that fire is still going on. Now earth quake.
LOS ANGELES - A strong earthquake shook Southern California on Tuesday, causing buildings to sway and triggering some precautionary evacuations. There were no immediate reports of damage or injuries.

The jolt was felt from Los Angeles to San Diego, and slightly in Las Vegas. The 11:42 a.m. quake initially was estimated at 5.8 but was revised downward to magnitude-5.4 .
Thank God there is no major damage made.
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My daughter Avory in Whip Cream Face


Here is the picture of my daughter Avory participating activities. She is on the multi color top. Her partner was trying to put whip cream on her whole face . She had to have her face covered with whipped cream
and Justin her brother would then throw cheetoes at her face to have them stick on her face.
The team that collected the most cheetoes would win. Sound so fun huh!
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This picture is also taken at the first day of camp. My son Justin is on the left side as you see, he doesn't stay clean, and take note that's the first day of camp.(LOL) My daughter Avory is on the far right side wearing a sweater with flash light.





                                 Justin                  Leah          Aubry              Avory



Look like they are getting ready fro camp fire.
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Avory and Her Friends



Here is the picture of my daughter and her friends. My daughter Avory is at the right side sitting with her friend Brianna  the other two is  Clara sitting next to Avory on  the same chair, Natalie is with the dog. Natalie is sister to Brianna. This picture was taken at the first day of camp as well.
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Day One Of Church Camp







Here the picture of my son Justin on the first day of camp , while he is somewhat clean in the woods at Church Camp.
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Church Camp

As I mentioned in my other blog that my kids attended Church Camp on the 21-27 of July. A bunch of church member came from places to attend church at Icicle river in Leavenworth WA. I used to attend. It's always fun to attend church camp. A lot of activities to participate in, some crafts etc.

I am going to share some pictures that they took while they are at camp.
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He's Growing up so quick









Earlier this week I had share my daughter Avory's ( AJ ) picture here. Now I am sharing my son's picture. He is 11 1/2 years old.  Seem not too long ago when he was a baby and he was just crawling. Now he is so independent in someways. And it's funny, he always tell's me on the phone  every time i tell him something very important . Every time" I said never mind , you wouldn't understand", he always tell's me " Mom, I am eleven years old . I am not a baby anymore, you can talk to me". Sometime I just stop and tear up. I guess I just miss them so much. ( My kids are staying with their dad, if anyone is wondering). Anyway, that's my little guy, not a little boy any longer. But he will always be my little guy.
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